#UNLOCK THE MISTERIES OF LIFE

#UNLOCK THE MISTERIES OF LIFE

Saturday 10 October 2015

USING INDIRECT STRATEGY TO GET THROUGH YOUR CRUSH

L-O-V-E is such a simple four letter word that is not a noun to be defined but it is a verb to be acted upon. When you start having that one special person that makes your heart beat involuntary you start residing in your own planet of IMAGINATION where flowers smell more divine, where your lovers voice becomes joyful tunes that plays in softly through your ears as if it is melody played by angels high up in Heaven. What do you do when that special person doesn't even notice how you feel about them?

Do you?

1. Start posting your best pictures on Facebook? but still he/she doesn't even bother to like them
2. Start a conversation with them about the things he/she is interested in on social media platforms? only to find out that they are tired and they want to log out.

STOP RIGHT THERE, THESE THINGS DON'T WORK

It becomes very heart breaking
But it happens

Effective communications is done verbally where the crush can observe the non verbal codes that accompanies what you say

When this happens you feel very disappointing and rejected. Stop sobbing and start acting upon your feelings by using "INDIRECT STRATEGY" with this method you start getting closer to your CRUSH cycle of friends. This means that you will start understanding them better (likes & dislikes) through their friends. Every time you visit their friend, you get an opportunity of spending some quality time indirectly with them. It can also be a platform for you to reveal your uniqueness and what sets you apart from the rest. This might be confusing at first for the friends when they are trying to figure out whom you Love between them, make sure you resolve this confusing by drawing a thin line of friend-zone to the one you are using as bridge to get to your Crush and always leave a clear picture of how many things you have in common with your crush and  the good traits you posses that he/she wouldn't want to loose.

"Remember Love is a Verb that needs to be acted upon"
The closer the proximity, the more chances you have to win their heart


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