I am not "BOSSY" I am the "BOSS"

Life is like a jungle where you find different species that serve a different purposes, like Charles Darwin said "It is the survival of the fittest", if you are weak you get eliminated but if you are strong you pass your strong characteristics to the next generation.

However it all depends on which group of animals you belong to in order to survive, when you are a prey you always have to be running around afraid of us the Kings of the Jungle lions. Lions don't seat down the whole day and relax with the hope that its prey will come however a Lion goes out there and Hunts it's prey, unlike vultures Lions don't sit down and wait for another animal to hunt for them and they eat remains

When a Lion hunts it doesn't randomly go for any animal in the jungle but it has a goal and target animal, it never stops until it catches its target. A Lion does not follow or take orders from anyone instead it takes charge and lead the crowd.

I am exactly like a Lion/Lioness because:
1. I don't seat down and wait for opportunities to come my way like a Christmas gift from Santa Claus but I create my own opportunities.
2. I never follow anyone but I lead my own path
3. I have my target and goals that I set and never rest until I reach them.
4. I am very courageous I never get shaken easily
5. My "Roar' can be heard by everyone because I am not afraid to voice out my opinions
6. Like a Lioness I do the hunting

Be the Boss that I see in you never allow anyone tell you that you are less important or make you feel inferior in any way. Today go to your mirror AND shout these words "I AM BOSS" make the world hear your ROAR and start acting like a BOSS you are

NB: Please paraphrase your comment every time you think of saying I am Bossy just say she is the Boss because that is what I am.

I am not pretending to be better, for the fact that you can see that I am pretending to be better it means that I am in fact better and you are not in the same level as I am.

My name is Jane Folodi which means I am a winner and I always fight for my success

Being me makes me Unique

I am willing to swim deeper and apply myself in every situation

Life is like a jungle where you find different species that serve a different purposes, like Charles Darwin said "It is the survival of the fittest", if you are weak you get eliminated but if you are strong you pass your strong characteristics to the next generation.

However it all depends on which group of animals you belong to in order to survive, when you are a prey you always have to be running around afraid of us the Kings of the Jungle lions. Lions don't seat down the whole day and relax with the hope that its prey will come however a Lion goes out there and Hunts it's prey, unlike vultures Lions don't sit down and wait for another animal to hunt for them and they eat remains

When a Lion hunts it doesn't randomly go for any animal in the jungle but it has a goal and target animal, it never stops until it catches its target. A Lion does not follow or take orders from anyone instead it takes charge and lead the crowd.

I am exactly like a Lion/Lioness because:
1. I don't seat down and wait for opportunities to come my way like a Christmas gift from Santa Claus but I create my own opportunities.
2. I never follow anyone but I lead my own path
3. I have my target and goals that I set and never rest until I reach them.
4. I am very courageous I never get shaken easily
5. My "Roar' can be heard by everyone because I am not afraid to voice out my opinions
6. Like a Lioness I do the hunting

Be the Boss that I see in you never allow anyone tell you that you are less important or make you feel inferior in any way. Today go to your mirror AND shout these words "I AM BOSS" make the world hear your ROAR and start acting like a BOSS you are

NB: Please paraphrase your comment every time you think of saying I am Bossy just say she is the Boss because that is what I am.

I am not pretending to be better, for the fact that you can see that I am pretending to be better it means that I am in fact better and you are not in the same level as I am.

My name is Jane Folodi which means I am a winner and I always fight for my success

Being me makes me Unique

I am willing to swim deeper and apply myself in every situation

‪#‎IamDaBoss‬ ‪#‎Lioness‬ ‪#‎Royalty‬ ‪#‎Leader

USING INDIRECT STRATEGY TO GET THROUGH YOUR CRUSH

L-O-V-E is such a simple four letter word that is not a noun to be defined but it is a verb to be acted upon. When you start having that one special person that makes your heart beat involuntary you start residing in your own planet of IMAGINATION where flowers smell more divine, where your lovers voice becomes joyful tunes that plays in softly through your ears as if it is melody played by angels high up in Heaven. What do you do when that special person doesn't even notice how you feel about them?

Do you?

1. Start posting your best pictures on Facebook? but still he/she doesn't even bother to like them
2. Start a conversation with them about the things he/she is interested in on social media platforms? only to find out that they are tired and they want to log out.

STOP RIGHT THERE, THESE THINGS DON'T WORK

It becomes very heart breaking
But it happens

Effective communications is done verbally where the crush can observe the non verbal codes that accompanies what you say

When this happens you feel very disappointing and rejected. Stop sobbing and start acting upon your feelings by using "INDIRECT STRATEGY" with this method you start getting closer to your CRUSH cycle of friends. This means that you will start understanding them better (likes & dislikes) through their friends. Every time you visit their friend, you get an opportunity of spending some quality time indirectly with them. It can also be a platform for you to reveal your uniqueness and what sets you apart from the rest. This might be confusing at first for the friends when they are trying to figure out whom you Love between them, make sure you resolve this confusing by drawing a thin line of friend-zone to the one you are using as bridge to get to your Crush and always leave a clear picture of how many things you have in common with your crush and  the good traits you posses that he/she wouldn't want to loose.

"Remember Love is a Verb that needs to be acted upon"
The closer the proximity, the more chances you have to win their heart

Because the Mother City said Yes!

APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE

People who are grateful are more satisfied with those little blessings that the Lord has blessed them with, they become more happier less stressful and depressed and they start Accepting. Ones you start longing for something that you don't have, that is when you start having the "IF ONLY THOUGHTS". You think that "if only you were driving a Ferrari, If only you were living in a luxurious house in town or if only you had a body like Beyonce your life could have been better.

So many of us live in a state of always wishing for more, have you ever thought about how much the Ferrari costed the driver and every time the car broker calls him/her they have to pretend their someone else in the phone because they can't pay the debt? or when that expensive car feels lonely and cold because there is only a driver in the car and one passenger?
Have you ever thought of the diet and exercise that Beyonce has to go through every day to maintain her figure?

Wipe out those tears and look around then you will realise that there is someone out there who has been praying for what you have and are not satisfied with. While you are busy complaining about the shack you are living in 10000 people are out sleeping in the streets and are longing for a roof on their shoulders and whilst you busy complaining about that expensive Rose Mora shoe someone is crying to the Lord because they don't have feet.

Jane Folodi

EMBRACE YOUR AFRICAN CROWN

Ooh, look at you African Queen,
With your dark skin, big lips
and Afro hair

You failed the pen test,
Your hair is all bushy and messed up
Not enough Relaxer to make it straight
No enough foundation can make you light skinned
No lipstick can cover the voluptuous lips inherited from grandmother

Hair kinky & Curly as a lamb's coat
Brazilian, Indian and Peruvian hair....
Only take your African crown and Heroines in you

Why do we always have to hide from our blackness?
Media says lighter is beautiful & slim is sexy
But Africa says the opposite
That dark chocolate complexion is Godly sent
Stop hiding it & start embracing it

Look at page 2 of COSMO today
It is now trending and Acceptable to be the African Queen
Big lips are now extra ordinary
Blondes and blue eyes now Que in surgeries for your lips
How ironic!

Embrace the Heroines in you
Dark complexion is beautiful
You are the African Queen
Those paints all over your face make you look like a clown

You are beautiful Naturally...Stop trying hard

Jane Folodi

LIFE IS LIKE SEASONS

Important Note:
Dear daughter
Remember that Situations in our lives are like seasons, they don't last for long they are only there to last for a short period of time and sharpens us to become better individuals of tomorrow. each and every season has its significant purpose.
1. Winter- The earth becomes brown and it becomes cold, during this season wise animals like ants gather their food before winter comes so that in winter they don't have to go search for food "Make hay while the sun shines"
2. Autumn- The leaves from the trees fall off and it becomes windy, this is the time when God removes all those dry leaves in your life (people, things like substances or addictions) that don't add value in your life.
3. Spring - This is the time when every plantation starts to blossom up and nature becomes beautiful by different colours of flowers coming up. During this time of your life that is when you start seeing the results of your hard labour blossoming up.
4. Summer- This is the time when it becomes hot and every fruit in each tree starts to be ripe and all the farmers start eating the fruits of their hard labour. Those who worked hard and spent more time to water their trees will have the biggest fruits to eat in the garden.

What ever season that you are going through your life always know that god has a purpose for it and it is the for a reason.
This is a letter from your beloved mother.....
Jane Folodi

POWER OF SOCIAL MEDIA

The truth is that when social media is used strategically over time it has the power to build a persons brand/reputation or it can destroy it. social media is like clay it depends on the crafter's hands how they create it and create a perception about their craft work to other people. Make sure that you use social media to build your reputation not to destroy it.

Nowadays it only takes social media to know everything about a person, because people now use social media platforms as their daily diaries. a person will for instance check in a restaurant and post a picture of the food their eating, or post a picture of their new accessories. Which brings an interesting question that if you were really enjoying at an event will you have time to take a picture of that moment and post it? or perhaps you are just trying to convince people that you were enjoying.

Be careful of what you post on social media because it doesn't only create a certain perception about your "Self Brand" or destroy your reputation but it goes as far as destroying your chances of getting to your dream job.

Twink twice before you post anything, it is not about the likes that people give your post is all about the impact it has on your self brand later on
‪#‎PowerOfSocialMedia‬ ‪#‎KnowyourDiary‬ ‪#‎SelfBrand‬